I came across this post from JillFit Physiques on how to deal with disappointment, and it just made everything seem so clear to me:
Truth: No one reaches adulthood without disappointing someone.
Whether it’s a parent or grandparent, a spouse or partner, or a close friend or family member — people will not always agree with our choices.
And if we think about it, we can see it from their point of view. It’s only human that they’d want us to remain in our safe zone. It’s safer for them because nothing has to change, and they perceive that it’s safer for us too. They want to keep us from making mistakes and ending up in pain. Of course they do, they love us and don’t want us to struggle.
But that’s also an impossible task. None of us get out of this life without some real struggle (whether we go looking for it or not), and eventually, many of us will get to a point where we need to go out and do something for ourselves, something that speaks to our soul. And though that can be scary for all involved, it’s also just part of the journey.
And the outcome is disappointing others. It’s inevitable. And you might never convince your friends or loved ones to be on your team, but you can always practice kindness and understanding, and then do whatever you were going to do anyway. If you can’t convince them with words, your actions and outcomes will speak volumes.
And the irony of this is usually the second you don’t need anyone else’s approval anymore is usually about the same time they come around.
#MondayMusings
–Reposted from JillFit Physiques
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